topi berfikir aku

we abhor the same kind of bad characters in people. yet sometimes, without fail and realizing it, we erred and did the same thing to someone else.

my brother said he read somewhere about a psychological research on personality and character. although we always assume that they are the same, (stated so in the thesaurus so that means it has similar meanings, not exact, kan?) those two apparently bring different meanings in psychological point of view.

personality is what your impressions are on someone you just met and a continuous outward approach of a person. how they talk, how they carry themselves, how they treat others. character is what you discover or know more about a person after you spent a time with him/her. usually, a darker side of them come out in the open. that’s why someone could be great and nice but at the same time he/she is such a pain in the ass! (”that’s not a nice word, you should say kick his butt” “oowh” hehe cute~)

that sound explanation on the research’s finding clears up my confusion and ignorance BIG TIME! because it is really mind-boggling how an outwardly nice person can be emotionally hurtful the next.

but now i know and you know. so why don’t we all try to have both admirable character and personality instead of living life hiding behind that mask of hideous personality?

heh. esok esok buat lagi. manusia.

tidaklah gembira benar rasanya. jika sudah perih enam tahun yang panjang dan jenuh lantas kamu fikir ia pasti lebih bermakna. ya, ya..ia bermaksud sesuatu. tapi tidaklah begitu. senyuman yang singgah bukan berbuah atas sekeping ijazah itu semata. kegembiraan lebih pada bertungkus-lumusnya hadir insan-insan tersayang, wajah tenang dan syukurnya mereka, bertemunya semula dengan rakan-rakan, meronda ingat-ingatkan sekitar universiti. terimalah kasihku

maybe the thought of going back to work after a long holiday and exhaustion of rushing here and there dampen the joyfulness?

atau kerana dulu aku tidak rajin belajar, tidak jenuh, tidak perih jadinya tidaklah panjang enam tahun itu. haha. i like this excuse better.

dah lama tak berpantun….

..cengkerik duk gesek

bising malamku

tapi senyapnya ia

janggal rasa..

..hendakku bela

nanti berbudi

payah berbiar

buat sakit hati..

..kupil usik luka

baik nanah cela

dipunjut hajat

buat yang Maha..

these few days have been a ride of emotional confusion. it probes. it provokes. and tonight i had coffee. so finally, i am compelled to write about it. yes, i think tangan cik siti akan gatal nak betulkan ayat ini bila beliau membacanye.

i wished to update my blog with a simple entry, therefore i wanted to use spiteful, direct to the point sentences so that the message may get across. BUT why sink as low? doesn’t small minds discuss people? eh..was that low? hehe…anyways, that idea was in past tense.

.in the spirit of formal assembly for a graduation ceremony. yeay! alhamdulillah.

moving on to blogging what-nots. are there rules that one has to follow when one wants to link one’s blog to another’s? recently, a stranger had the decency to message and inform me that he linked his blog to mine. how did he find topi berfikir aku?

sebagai penutup entri kali ini, mari sama-sama kita baca dan cuba fahami hadith ini. wallahualam.

Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda, maksudnya:
“Manusia yang paling dikasihi Allah ialah orang yang memberi manfaat kepada orang lain dan amalan yang paling disukai oleh Allah ialah menggembirakan hati orang-orang Islam atau menghilangkan kesusahan daripadanya atau menunaikan keperluan hidupnya di dunia atau memberi makan orang yang lapar. Perjalananku bersama saudaraku yang muslim untuk menunaikan hajatnya, adalah lebih aku sukai daripada aku beriktikaf di dalam masjid ini selama sebulan, dan sesiapa yang menahan kemarahannya sekalipun ia mampu untuk membalasnya nescaya Allah akan memenuhi keredhaannya di dalam hatinya pada hari Qiamat, dan sesiapa yang berjalan bersama-sama saudaranya yang Islam untuk menunaikan hajat saudaranya itu hinggalah selesai hajatnya nescaya Allah akan tetapkan kakinya(ketika melalui pada hari Qiamat) dan sesungguhnya akhlak yang buruk akan merosakkan amalan seperti cuka merosakkan madu.”Riwayat Ibnu Abi Dunya.

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p/s: this blog skin is too chirpy for my liking.